What is Sexy to you?

What is Sexiness

What is Sexy?

 There are many opinions as to what someone finds sexy in another. I find that, for me, there is no set button that one can push, to get me " doe-eyed" or can send shivers down my arms all the time.  I am learning, that I am attracted to mental strength and an arresting gaze. Those two, seem to catch my notice and then I am looking to find out more about them-- I think is true for the majority of people. We all have our 'triggers' that's only human nature. To borrow a turn of phrase: "The Law of attraction", certainly applies here.

Many people have figured out, that what is sexy, is nothing more than confidence. Some have not and are ever chasing something, that is in most cases,  is transitory. The external or physical beauty. I think that in order to be attractive externally, you have to be attractive internally. It is that "inner peace", or joy, or the "it factor," that draws people to to you and say "Man, they're pretty." or "Wow they are so smart." or successful.

So are we saying?  Is Sexiness, what someone exudes,  or "puts our there"makes them appealing? Or is it their confidence, or a combination of all of the above-- Inner happiness, confidence and or visual beauty? what do you think?

For this installment, I'd like to give a male and a female example of "sexiness". I think these two individuals are persons that have all the aforementioned qualities. Enjoy ;)

Rosario-Dawson

 Benjamin Godfry